✦............♥ Khushgawar Azdwaji Zindagi ke 10 Usool ♥............✦

❶ Bahami Aaitemad ki fiza qayem ki jaye, Shak o Shubhat aur Galat fehmi o Badgumani se mukammal bacha jaye.
❷ Miya Biwi aik dusre ki galatiyon par fouran Mu’akhizah na karen balke tanhayi mein aik dusre ko samjhayen.
❸ Miya Biwi har mua’mle mein apne aap ko Aik dusre se behtar tasawwur na karen.
❹ Shohar baccho ke samne biwi ko na dante isi tarah Biwi bhi baccho ke samne apne khawind ki burayi na kare.
❺ Miya Biwi aik dusre ke Rishtedaron ka tahe dil se Ehteram karen.
❻ Shohar biwi ke huqooq ke sath sath apne Rishtedaron ke huqooq bhi acchi tarah ada kare.
❼ Shohar ki maali haisiyat ko Madde nazar rakh kar biwi gharelu Akhrajat kare aur shohar bhi kharch karne mein Bokhl se kaam na le.
❽ Shohar apni biwi ko nokrani aur mulazima Tasawwur na kare, Ghar ke chote mote kaam khud bhi Nimtane ki Aadat dale
❾ Biwi ki Khidmat ko sarahen aur us ke kamon ki Tareef kare, har Cheez mein Aib na nikale.
➓  Bawaqte zarurat shohar biwi se mashwerah bhi kare, lekin Faisla karne ka Ekhtiyar shohar aapne paas hi rakhe.

SHOHAR KA HUQOOQ BIWI PER

Assalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barkatuhu

Pyare Islami Bhaiyo,

ALLAH TA'ALA Ne Jis Tarah Aurato Par Shohar Ke Huqooq Farz Kiye Hai Usi Tarah Shohar Par Bhi Aurato Ke Huqooq Farz Hai.
In Huqooq Ko Ada Na Karnewala Sakht Gunaahgar Hai

ALLAH TA'ALA irshad Farmata Hai
"Aur Unse (Aurato Se) Acha Bartaw Karo".
(Tarzuma: Kanzul Imaan Para 4, Sure Nisa, Aayat 19)

Sarkaar-E-Madina Sallallaho Alaihi Wasallam Ne Irshad Farmaya
"Tum Me Ache Log Wah Hai
Jo Aurato Ke Sath Achi Tarah Pesh Aaye".
(Mishkat Sharif Part 2, Safa 282)

Sarkar-E-Madina Sallallaho Alaihi Wasallam Ne Irsad Farmaya
"Aurat Ko Kisi Bade Kasoor Ke Kabhi Hargiz Hargiz Na Mare
Jis Tarah Apne Gulaam Ko Mara Karta Hai
Fir Dusre Waqt Usse Sohbat Bhi Kare".
(Mishkat Sharif Jild 2, Safa 280)

Afsos! Aaj Ke Kuch Jahil Naujawan Apni Biwi Ko Marte Hai.
Ya ALLAH Hum Subko Apni Biwi Ki Izzat Karne Ki Taufiq Ata Farma
Aameen
Awwal Aakhir Durood

Habib-E-Khuda Sallallaho Alaihi Wasallam Ne Irshad Farmaya
"Koi Momin Mard Kisi Momin Aurat Se Bugz Wa Nafrat Na Rakhe
Kyunki Agar Aurat Ki Koi Aadat Buri Malum Hoti To Uski Koi Dusri Aadat Pasandida Bhi Hogi".
(Mishkat Sharif Jild 2, Safa 280)

Mehboob-E-Khuda Khatmunn Nabiyyin Sallallaho Alaihi Wasallam Ne Irshad Farmaya
"Tum Me Woh Behtar Hai
Jo Apni Biwi Ke Sath Behtar Hai
Aur Me Apni Biwiyo Ke Sath Tum Subse Jyada Behtar Hu".
(Ibne Maja Jild 1, Safa 551, Hadees No 2047, Tirmizi Sharif Jild 1, Safa 595)

Apni Biwi Ke Sath Acha Sulooq Karo.
Uske Sath Muhabbat Se Pesh Aao.
Biwi Ke Sath Narmi Aur Khushmijaji Se Bartaw Karo.
Apne Biwi Se Ladai Jhagda Na Karo
Pyare Aaqa Alahissalam Ki Sunnato Par Amal Karo

Madani Aaqa Sallallaho Alaihi Wasallam Ka Farmane Aalishan Hai Ki
"Sabse Bura Aadmi Wah Hai
Jo Apni Biwi Ko Sataye".
(Tabrani Sharif)

Pyare Islami Bahiyo Apni Biwi Par Julm Karna, Use Satana, Gaali Galoch Karna Bad Tarin Gunah Hai

Hazrat Abu Huraira Radiallaho Ta'ala Anhu Se Riwayat Hai Ki
Rasool-E-Akram Sallallaho Alaihi Wasallam Ne Irshad Farmaya
"Jab Kisi Ke Nikah Me Do Biwiya Ho
Aur Wo Ek Hi Ki Taraf Mayel Ho
To Woh Qayamat Ke Din Jab Aayega
To Uska Aadha Dhad Gira Hua Hoga".
(Tirmizi Sharif Jild 1, Safa 584, Hadees No 1137, Ibne Maaja Jild 1, Safa 549)

Habib-E-Khuda Sallallaho Alaihi Wasallam Ne Irshad Farmaya

"Aurato Ke Sath Neki Ka Bartaw Karo

Ki Unki Paidaish Tedhi Pasli Se Hui Hai

Wah Tere Liye Kabhi Sidhi Nahi Ho Sakti

Agar Tu Use Baratna Chahe To Har Haalat Me Barat Sakta Hai

Aur Sidha Karna Chahega To Tod Dega

Aur Todna Talaaq Dena Hai

(Muslim Sharif)

Hajjatul Wida Ke Mash'hur Khutbe Me Huzoor-E-Akram Sallallaho Alaihi Wasallam Ka Irshade Girami Hai Ki

Aye Logo!

"Aurato Ke Baare Me Neki Aur Bhalaai Karne Ki Wasiat Farmata Hu

Tum Meri Wasiat Qubool Karo

Beshaq Aurato Ka Tumhare Upar Haq Hai

Tum Unke Pehnaane Aur Khilaane Me Neki Ikhtiyar Karo

(Ibne Maja)

Madani Aaqa Sallallaho Alaihi Wasallam Ne Irshad Farmaya
"Nikah Ki Shart Yani Mehar Ada Karne Ka Sabse Jyada Khayal Rakho".
(Bukhari Sharif Jild 3, Safa 80)

Haq Mahar Ada Karna Shohar Par Wazib Hai Aur Ise Ada Karne Me Kotahi Karnewala Sakht Gunahgar Hai
Ya ALLAH Hum Subko Apne Biwi Ka Haq Ada Karne Ki Taufiq Ata Farma
Aur Biwi Ke Sath Muhabbat Se Zindagi Basar Karne Ki Taufiq Ata Farma
Aameen
Awwal Aakhir Durood

Aapki Dua Me Is Nachiz Ko Bhi Yaad Rakhe Aur Ye Post Khub Share KARE

....................................Janaze Ki Aawaz Siwa Insano Ke Sab Sunte Hai ..............................................

Hadees:
Hazrat Abu Saeed Khudri Radhi Allahu Ta’ala Anhu Se Marvi Hai Ki,
Rasool’Allah Sallallaho Alaihi Wasallam Ne Irshad Farmaya Ke,

“Jab Janaza Tayyar Ho Jaata Hai
Aur Log Usey Kandhe Par Uthate Hai
Agar Wah Accha Hai Toh Kehta Hai Mujhe Jald Le Chalo
Agar Bura Hai Toh
Kehta Hai Mujhko Tum Kaha Liye Ja Rahe Ho. Iski Aawaz Ko Siwa Insano Ke Sab Sunte Hai
Agar Insan Sun Le Toh Behosh Ho Jaaye”.
(Sahi Bukhari Jild 01, Safaah 537, Kitaab-ul-Janayez Hadees 1231)

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Maa Ka Martaba Aur Maa Ki Be-Karaari

Maa Ki Be-Karaari

» Hiqayat :
Ek Gulam-Sipahi Tha Fauj Ka Jiska
Naam Abu Mansur-Subkatgin Tha!
Ghar Me Bahoat Tangi Thi,
Uske Paas Ek Ghoda Tha Jisper Sawaar Hokar Yeh Kabhi-Kabhi Shikaar Khelne Chala Jata!
Shikaar Mil jata Toh Ghar Me Kuch Khana-Pina Ho jata Tha!
Na Milata Toh Ghar Me Faaka Hota!

Ek Baar Yeh Shikaar Ki Niyat Se Ja Raha Tha
Ki Isne Ek Heerni Ko Dekha
Jiske Sath Chotasa Baccha Tha!
Usne Apna Ghoda Jo Uske Piche Daudaya
To Heerni To Bhaag Gayi Magar Chhota Baccha Na Bhaag Saka
To Isne Uss Bacche Ko Pakad Liya!
Jab Maa Ne Dekha Ki Mere Bacche Ko Iss
Aadmi Ne Pakad Liya, To Bhaagti Hui Heerni Fir Wapas Aagayi
Aur Usne Iske Karib Aaker Apni Iss Be-Karaari Ka Izhaar Karna Shuru Kar diya!
Aasmaan Ki Taraf Mooh Uthati Thi Aur
Dard Bhari Awaaz Nikaalti Thi!
Yeh Rahem Dil Insan Tha Samajh Gaya Ki
Yeh Maa Be-Karaar Hai,
Ki Mera Beta Iss Shikaari Ke Hath Me Chala Gaya!
Lihaza Isney Uske Be-Karaari Ko Dekhte Hue Uske Bacche Ko Chhod Diya!
Wo Maa Apne Bacche Ko Lekar Chali Gayi!

Yeh Wapas Aaya,
Raat Ko Soya Toh Khwab Me Usko Nabi-E-Kareem Sallallahu Alaihai Wasallam Ka Dedaar Nasib Hua!
Huzoor Sallallahu Alaihai Wasallam Ne Irshad Farmaya Ki,

“Tune Ek Maa Ki Be-Karaari Ko Dekhker Usper Reham Khaya!
Yeh Tera Amal Allah Ko Itna Pasand Aaya
Ki Allah Ta’ala Tujhe Duniya Ka Taaj Ata Farmayega
Aur Tune Uska Beta
Wapas Kiya Uske Badle Allah Ta’aala Tujhe Beta Ata Farmayega”,
Lihaza Uske Yahan Beta Hua
(Baroz-Jumerat, 10 vi Muharram, 361-Hijri/
November 2, 971 AD) Jiska Naam
*Sultan Mehmood Gaznawi*
Rakha Gaya Jo Pure Hindustan Ka
Faateh Bana Aur Allah Rabbul Izzat Ne
Iss Garib (Abu Mansur Sabuktigin-
Turkey- Ek Gulam Sipahi) Ko Ek
Baadshah Ka Baap Ban’ne Ki Taufiq Ata Farmayi!
- (Sukoon-E-Khana, Page-220)

» Sabak:
Agar Jaanwar Jaisi Maa Ki Be-Karaari Ka Khayaal Rakha Jaye
Toh Insan Ko Duniya Ki Shahi Milti Hain!
Yeh Naujawaan Bacche Aur
Bacchiyan Yeh Baat Samazle Ki Agar
Apni Maa Ki Be-Karaari Ke Dauraan Uske Sath Mohabbat Ka Muamla
Karoge
Toh Allah Ta’aala Unhe Duniya Aur Deen Ki Baadshahi Ataa Farmayega!

Allah Ta’ala Hamari Kotahiyon ko
Darguzar Farmaye Aur Hume Nekon-
Kaari Aur Parhezgari Ki Zindagi Ata
Farmayen!
“Aameen Ya Rabbul Aalameen”
Awwal Aakhir Durood

   MAA. MAA. MAA
      *Ek Aisi Hasti Hai*

    *SAMANDAR NE KAHA*

              MAA
        Ek Aisi Hasti Hain
Jo Aulad Ke Lakho Raaz.   
       Apne Seene Mein.          
      Chhupa Leti Hain.

        *Dua NE KAHAN*

                MAA
      Wo Shaksiyat Hain
            Jo Har Waqt
       Aulad Ke Liye Dua
       Mangti Rehti Hain

   *JANNAT NE KAHAN*

              MAA
          Wo Hasti Hain
        Jo Main Bhi Uske
      Qadmon Tale Hoon

       *GHAR NE KAHAN*

                 MAA
            Wo Hasti Hain
        Jiske Bagair Main.   
         Kabristaan Hoon

   *KHUSHBU NE KAHAN*

            MAA
        Wo Hasti Hain
       Jiske Khushbu
         Se Sara Jahan
      Mahek Uthta Hain

   *ALLAH Tala Ne Farmaya*

            MAA
    Wo Shaksiyat Hain
      Jo Meri Taraf Se
    Nayab Tohfa Hain                                          

    VALUE & RESPECT UR
       M O T H E R
      A.   L.   W.   A.   Y.   S.

Shab-E-Meraj Ke Safar Ki Manzile

Baitul mukaddas se Maqam-E-Kab Kausen tak pohochne me aapne 10 manzil par qiyam farmaya.
Aur har manzil par kuch guftgu hui aur bohotsi khudawandi nishaniyo ko mulahza farmaya
1. Awwal Aasman
2. Dusra Aasman
3. Tisra Aasman
4. Chautha Aasman
5. Panchva Aasman
6. Chata Aasman
7. Satva Aasman
8. Sidratul Muntaha
9. Maqaam-E-Mustawa Jaha Aapne Kalme Kudrat ke chalne ki aawaz suni.
10. Arsh-E-Aazam

(Tafsir Ruhool Ma'aani Jild 15, Safa 10, Sirat-E-Mustafa

Tarawi Me Pura QURAN- E-PAAK Padhna Sunnat ……..

•» Tarawi Me Pura QURAN-E-PAAK Padhna Aur Sun’na Sunnat-E-Muakeda Hai.
-(Fatawa-E-Razviya Jild:7 Safa:458)
•» Mariz Ko maraz badh jaane ka gumane galib ho to ijazat he ki us din Roza na rakhe.–(Durre Mukhtar)
•» Jis shakhs ka inteqal hojaye aur ispar Roze baaqi hon to uski taraf say uska wali Roze rakhe.
-(Abu dawood)

Ummat Tamanna Karti Ke Pure Saal Ramzaan Ho …

Abu Masood Ghaffari (Radiyallahu Anhu) Se Ek Taweel Hadees Riwayat Ki, Us Main Ye BhiHai Ki, Huzoor (Sallallahu Alaihi Wa Sallam) Ne Farmaya, “Agar Bandon Ko Ma’aloom Hota Ki Ramzaan Kya Cheez Hai, Toh Meri Ummat Tamanna Karti Ke Pure Saal Ramzaan Ho”.
-(Ibne Khazina)